Saturday night.. and my god am I stressed out?

I have had a pretty hectic week, this has been down to having an intruder in my home and then the stress of finding out that my sister had experienced the same thing within days of me! Its been made particuarly difficult because of the lack of support or understanding from the police, and now I have my daughter visiting as well and she is enough to drain even the strongest person.

She is 23 yr old but when at my house she acts like she is about 10yr old all over again.. from the time she arrives she sits in an armchair watching TV, holding the remote tight so that no one else can watch anything else.. she is extremely lazy to boot and thinks nothing of answering me back or telling me I am stupid! she is so like her father these days that I find it had to confront her about her lack of respect for me and my home.. And she wants to move back in with me in february!!!! OMG... its just so not going to happen.. I cannot live in the same house as someone who lacks respect for not only me but for themself.. she doesn't have any idea at all what she does to me, she has come to visit this time with a total of 48pence in her pocket! expecting me to fund anything she needs whilst she is here, but I can't do it.. I just don't have the money to pay for her.. she earns a good wage but is a spendaholic.. within a week of getting paid she is broke... she manages to get through over £1,200 a month.. 4 times what I get.. and she asks me to help her!! I just don't understand how she gets through all her money so quickly..

I just can't really find the words to describe how I feel tonight, its weird.. I feel sad, confused, abandoned and alone, yet there are three other people in here..I'm not on my own but I feel alone! that doesn't make sense eh! I have my good friend here which helps a lot but somehow when ever my daughter visits all I can think of is the hurt she caused me last year.. Then she starts to talk to me the way her father used to I go quiet, I lose my voice all over again almost as if she triggers me! Its just not fair... I just want to run away and see how far I get!!!!!!!! But what good would that do to me? no good at all, I have spent far to long running away from things and now its time to stand still and deal with each part as it comes along..

Will write more tomorrow can't concentrate.... to much going on in this house... Oh for peace and quiet again.....