Why do families have to be so damned nasty? I recently moved home and need a few little jobs doing to make life more comfortable here, my brother-in-law said he would happily do them for me! but now 5 weeks later they are still not done? he has made arrangements several times to come over and help us out, but today takes the biscuit!

We'd arranged for him to come over this evening after work to fit a loft ladder for me so that I could put things up there, its about 10feet high so no way can anyone reach without the ladder! I bought the ladder myself weeks ago .. so its notlike I'm expecting him to pay anything out, I had an appointment this afternoon and worried I may be a bit late home I called my sister at 2pm and told her! she was fine saying we'll see you later tonight.. I tried to call when on the way home again, but neither her nor her husband answered their phones? which is unusual for them.. anyways I got a text message from her at 6.38pm saying 'sorry he has his head under the back of my washing machine trying to fix the leak I have, my kitchen is flooded' I know this is a complete and utter lie as I had called the house just 10 minutes earlier and spoken to her 29yr old son, who told me no one was home!

I then called my sister and left her a message saying I did not appreciate being lied to, why not just be honest with me? She has not replied, So I sent her a text asking her to call me! still nothing, neither her nor her husband are answering their phones to me? WHY NOT BE HONEST! WHY LIE TO ME?

They both know that I have been lied to most of my life and its a big 'trigger' for me, so why do they do it? I'm now sat here feeling like shit! What the hell have I done to them to deserve this treatment? I called my other sister who lives just down the road, she wasn't home so I called her mobile and she claims she doesn't know where the other one is? Rubbish I heard her in the background... they were out having dinner? What is it with some people that they just do not know how to tell the truth! If it hit them between the eyes they wouldn't do it, If I treated them like this they wouldn't stand for it, so why should I? They can get stuffed the pair of them.. I've had enough of being walked over, all my life people have taken the piss out of me, well no more! I'm not taking it from them or anyone else.... I have rights to, and deserve my own family at least to be honest with me, ok if the husband had had a hard day and was to tired why not just say so? why do they feel the need to lie to me? It Makes me sick!!!!